I am so very thankful, today and everyday for so very much. May today be a day full of thankfulness for you as well.
November 26, 2014
We had a wonderful trip to NJ.
Those airline miles might be long but it is so worth it to be together.
To leave winter in Alaska and enjoy fall in NJ
To get big hugs from an uncle
And lots of love from an aunt
We all had the most wonderful time, I miss it already.
November 25, 2014
For the past week and a half these two little girls and I have been out of town. This fall it was decided that I really needed to have a little more time with my sister. I just wanted to get to NJ so badly but knew I couldn't take all three kids. But thanks to a very great mother-in-law the girls and I were able to travel to the east coast while Grammie came to Fairbanks for some one on one time with Ethan while Josh worked. Amazing how just two kids instead of three makes things seem like more of a possibility.
But we are home now after a great trip. There is so much I can't wait to share with you. These two sisters spending time with me and my sister, what a great thing it was. Memories, memories! Now it is time to reconnect with our men. It is good to once again be a family of five.
November 24, 2014
The fred meyer 8 page toy magazine came out not too long ago. The kids and I have been having so much fun. I have to admit I love watching the kids pour over those 8 pages of fun, bright, exciting and possible toys. Right now I don't tell them they will get the toys or not get the toys. I don't promise and they don't really expect. What this is right now is excitement. I love seeing how they pick things that maybe I might not have thought they would notice. I like seeing them go for different things but stop to admire what the other person was interested in. I like the conversations that come out of seeing all that is out there for kids to have.
Josh gets concerned that looking at this ad will cause a sense of unnecessary want. I can understand that concern. I can see how he can be anxious about the "I want, I want, I want". There is a fear that gratitude for what we have will be lost. But I also remember as a child pouring over the magazines that would come in the mail. Taking a marker and circling almost everything and then slowly over days going back and back and back over those choices. There was never a belief that I would have all of those items someday but the hope of getting something was so exciting. I know Christmas is different in every house and I know you might feel very different about the Christmas ad then I do but for now it gives me a smile and it helps me get to know my kids, and what they love, just a little bit more.
November 21, 2014
We love the Home Depot monthly craft morning for kids.
Not something we do each month but when we do, it is something we all enjoy.
The painting is always Abigail's favorite part, the hammering is Ethan's. Perfect for the boy who would swing a hammer everyday if I let him. Being creative all the while feeling destructive, the perfect combination.
November 20, 2014
Abigail recently found this little bag. She loves bags, purses, boxes, backpacks, and baskets. Things to put things into. The stuff she puts in these items are always random but precious to her. Well, this little duck bag she declared was a mailbox. She colored a picture in her coloring book and put it in there for me. Then she told me that I must write her a note in return. Well, that initial exchange has brought on a few weeks of fun.
I often do my notes at night and she comes up with colorings, drawings or something small of her own to put in for me during the day. This mailbox exchange is also a lesson to me in slowing down. I never know when she will find my notes and as much as I draw pictures I also write words that she needs help with reading. It seems she comes to me with her note at the most inconvenient times. And when she puts something in for me she wants me to look, RIGHT AWAY. Both of these instances is a lesson for both of us to be patient and put important things first. I see the notes I write to her carried around, put up in her special place and used as bookmarks in her books. It reminds me that the content of the notes don't have to be profound. It is the act of getting those notes from me and then me having the time to talk to her about those little pieces of paper that really matters. Getting mail is fun no matter how old you are, a way to feel loved.
November 19, 2014
It often seems that in the mornings my big kids wake up because Naomi cries out for me. Although they are in their room and Naomi is in mine, the noise travels and everyone is awake at once. This isn't a problem for Abigail as she gets up, goes potty and then comes in to see me. It is a problem for Ethan who is still in a crib (please don't judge me, I am not ready for that switch to a toddler bed just yet.)
So when Abigail comes in, if I am nursing Naomi and just need another minute or two, I tell her to go in her room, turn on the light and give Ethan a book. This usually works just fine and buys me those few extra minutes I need with the baby.
But it did make me laugh the other morning when I came in to get Ethan and instead of one little person in his crib I found two. Instead of passing the book through the bars Abigail decided on personally delivering that morning's entertainment. I loved the morning giggles I was getting from both of them that I took these quick pictures.
Mornings are a slow time for me and the kids. The cuddles, the games, the books, the whole process of getting dressed (Ethan pick out your clothes, Ethan please put on your clothes, Ethan please find your clothes, etc...) is one I still love. Once we all venture downstairs the day begins. Phone calls come in, food needs prepared, chores must be done but this time before the sun rises is slow and relaxed. The great intake of air before the steady stream of the day's force pushes us ahead.
November 18, 2014
I posted two weeks ago about how the kids have been able to Skype with daddy when he is at work some days. It is a wonderful way to see daddy when the work hours are long. But nothing really is as good as a real hug from the man himself. So I have taken to getting a guest pass for our military base just for the sole reason of getting to say a quick hi to daddy when he is on the job.
And just sometimes he is out running around on the side by side visiting groundwater collection well sites and the kids can get a quick ride for fun.
And daddy's van is always filled with fun things, that are anything but child proof, to explore. Our visits are rarely ever more than 5 minutes but when we can make it happen, it is a favorite part of our day.
November 17, 2014
One thing I really, really love to do each year is pack boxes for Operation Christmas Child.
This year the kids all got to help. Naomi and I took one box to the store to see how things fit and to buy the contents.
But then at home it was a family affair to fill 12 boxes full. It was hard for Abigail to give away those beautiful headbands, bracelets, and baby dolls. But she gave each baby a rock and loving pat before we tucked them into the boxes. It was a good lesson for each of the kids to think of those in need but oh how hard these lessons it can be sometimes. Ethan enjoyed the process but Abigail is now old enough to know she would really like those toys but they just weren't for her.
After packing all the boxes I realized that I had grabbed the boxes but not the labels. Thus I had Abigail sit down and draw me a B for the boy boxes and a G for the girl boxes so we could tell them apart. It was a really fun moment for me as a mom to see those shaky letters being drawn out. A glimpse of things ahead for sure.
This week is the national collection week for Samaritan's purse, Operation Christmas Child Boxes. If you are able to pack one, or more, please do. It is such a fun thing for some child in need but also so much fun for those of us that get to do the packing itself!
November 14, 2014
Since Ethan was about 5 months old, when Abigail was 26 months, these two kids have been about the same size when it comes to weight. Always within a pound or two of each other we have watched them grow and grow together.
But it sure did make me laugh when we went in for flu shots the other day and the scale for both of them was exactly 31 lbs 6 oz. 21 months apart in age and 3 1/4" difference in their heigh but spot on for weight. I love to watch them grow.
November 13, 2014
Abigail loves her special place, the guest room closet that I converted into a little room just for her. She often has the place trashed but to her there is order. She is constantly trying to hang this or that up on the wall.
A card, a picture, a note, a picture colored, a button, these things are all precious to her. So in order to save the walls in there a little bit from loads and loads of tape, I recently hung a bulletin board for her.
This bulletin board cracks me up as there are different things hung daily. One thing I love as a mother is to see what is special to each of my children. I love watching Abigail in this space. What animals get put on display, what items are put on her board, what games she creates out of her specially collected items. It is all so wonderful, funny and a secret glance into who she is.
November 12, 2014
The carrots were harvested from the garden almost two months ago. Since then we have cleaned a few here or there every few days to enjoy fresh. But the arctic entry where the garden carrots were stored is getting colder and colder each day. The yearly chore of processing the carrots had to be done.
So this weekend pounds and pounds of carrots were scrubbed, diced and blanched. We did save a large amount in the fridge since we all know fresh carrots are better than cooked, but thankful for them all we are!